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The Best 22 At Home Date Night Ideas – With Sleeping Kids

The Best 22 At Home Date Night Ideas – With Sleeping Kids

At home date night ideas that are perfect when you have sleeping kids 
 Date Night Ideas that you can do from home after the kids are in bed. Here are 22 fun, cheap and totally doable date night ideas that you can have at home after the kids are asleep. There is something for everyone!
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 The best at home date night ideas

Hush! The Kids Are Asleep

The kids are tucked into bed and sound asleep. What do you do? Do you spend some quality time with your spouse or do you lie on different ends of the couch, barely speaking?

Spending time together as a couple and keeping the fire burning is important. But if you have kids, you might find yourself spending less and less time together.

Even if you want to spend time with your husband, it’s not always that easy. You might be working different shifts, be in a rut, your kids may be having a hard time falling asleep, or you’re just too tired at the end of the day.

Kids are truly the most joyful thing in life. But they do require a lot of attention, time and energy. Sometimes it feels like all we talk about is the kids. Who’s turn is it to put the kids to bed, who’s time is it to change the diaper and so on. Finding time to have a date night when you have young kids feels impossible sometimes.

Not all of us can even afford to go on dates every month. And if we would have to pay for a babysitter as well…Well, I find it hard to believe that we would even go on a date on our anniversary then.

That’s why I started researching for date night ideas that we can have at home! I came up with a list of 22 cheap, fun, and totally doable date night ideas that you can do at home while the kids are sleeping. Isn’t that awesome?

Put your kids down for the night, grab your husband, choose something to do from the list below, and get your dating on!

Related: 27 Ways To Show Your Husband That You Love Him And Keep The Spark Alive



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Remember to Bookmark, Print or Pin this list so you can easily access it when it’s time to start planning for your next date night!


How To Date After Bedtime:

1. Give each other massage

Is there a better way to boost your relationship and be sensual with each other than to give each other massage? By giving massage you’re forced to be intimate, the trust between you strengthens and let’s face it, it’s a great way to spend time together.

Giving a great massage can be difficult if you’re not a massage therapist that is. Before your first massage date night, learn how to give him a massage he won’t forget.


2. Play would you rather

This game is so much fun, don’t you think? And there is a lot of different versions of this game so it never gets dull. You can play it with a political twist, you can play the gross version (not for the easily disgusted), you could ask sport related questions or you can play it with some romance.

Which ever twist you choose, it’s a great way of getting to know one another again and is, therefore, a great date night idea. You could even come up with your own questions, although you need to have some imagination.



3. Spa date

I love going to the spa. It’s so refreshing and you walk out as a new and calmer person. But going to a spa costs a lot of money and you’ll need to get a babysitter as well.

But here’s the good news. Having a home spa is equally relaxing and you can invite your spouse to do a couples spa night in your own bathroom. Buy a body scrub and face mask or make them yourself.

Related: How To Get Alone Time As A Mom (No, It’s Not Selfish, And Here’s Why)


4. Sing karaoke

It’s kinda like a karaoke bar. Just in your living room. If your kids are light sleepers, this one might not be for you. But otherwise, you should try some karaoke with your spouse. It’s intimate and a lot of fun.

A few years ago I sang Singstar every single day. I love to feel like a big rock star standing on a stage (Or in my case, the living room table). If you don’t want to invest in the game, you can head over to Youtube and search for Karaoke channels.



5. Romantic candle night dinner

This is a classic that doesn’t really need any explanation. Feed your kids dinner and then put them to bed. And when they’ve fallen asleep, you and your man can eat in peace and quiet By eating by yourselves you get a chance to reconnect and talk about something that’s more age appropriate for you.

Cook something that you both like or order in and set the mood by setting a romantic table.


6. Movie marathon

Pop some popcorn, get out the snacks and wino and cuddle up on the sofa. A movie marathon usually has a theme. Like a decade, a director, an actor or a genre.

I usually find it hard to stay awake during one movie, yet alone two. But you can always watch the second movie the next night.  If you need some ideas for your movie marathon, check out this list of movie marathon you need to have at least once.


7. Around the world date night

Traveling to several different countries can be quite expensive. But you can always experience the food and culture of different countries right there in your kitchen. With the Dating Divas 12 months of international themed date nights, you can *visit* a new country every month.

The bundle includes dinner menu invitation for each country, recipe cards and activities inspired by the different countries. Ireland is my favorite!


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8. Play video games

I can almost guarantee that your husband played video games growing up. And maybe you did too? More and more people are playing video games and maybe you even got one in the house?

Dig out your old Nintendo 8-bit and play some Super Mario and travel back to your teenage days. Of course, you can play something entirely different, just as long as you have a fun date night!


9. Dance

Dancing is one of the most intimate activities you can engage in with another person. There’s a lot of touching and looking into each other’s eyes (pretty good idea for foreplay, huh?).

Put on your favorite music (not too loud, the kids are sleeping remember?), take your hubbies hand and slow dance. If you can’t dance, date night is a great opportunity to learn and you can even choose to step out of our comfort zone and learn to dance the tango.


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10. Take personality tests

This is a great way to get to know one another on a deeper level. Personality test lets you know who you are and why you do things. Just think of how great it would be if you understood why your husband does things. That opens up for a whole new level of understanding between you guys!

Take these tests to understand who you are and why you do things the way you do and how compatible you are as a couple.


11. Play board games

You don’t always have to talk to each other at date night. Sometimes the conversation just doesn’t float. If that’s the case for you, then you should definitely play a board game! Board games are so much fun and there’s a ton of them out there.

Check with your friends and family if you can borrow some games from them, instead of playing the ones that are in your closet (that you’ve already played a hundred times..).

12. Play a love game

Is board games not for you? Don’t worry. You can still play games with your other half. How about spicing things up and play a sex game that guarantees more fun in the bedroom?

It’s easy to get into a rut when it comes to sex and who even remembers foreplay? Playing a sex game once in a while is a great way to make sure that you stay out of that rut.


13. Have a theme night

A theme makes everything more fun, don’t you think? And there’s endless of them! You can have a French night and serve French wine and baguettes while watching a French movie. Or a Disney night with food inspired from different movies.

Create a beach in your living room, dress up with flower leis and have Hawaiian night. You could even copy your favorite movie and watch it after or during dinner.


14. Do a crossword together

It really doesn’t have to be more complicated than this. Try solving The Times last Sunday crossword or buy a crossword puzzle magazine. Solving a crossword puzzle together lets you see how you compliment each other. The word’s that you can’t solve, might be solved by your husband. You can find a library of crossword puzzles online or choose to solve daily puzzles if you’d like.

Related: Want To Be Better At Problem Solving? Start Playing Mobile Games!


15. Have a fondue party

Have you tried fondue yet? It’s really good. You’ll need to invest in a fondue pot with a small flame underneath that keeps the mixture warm enough. Then you can serve fondue as an entree or as dessert.

You can eat fruits and berries, chocolate, cheese, marshmallow, nuts, or crackers. Sounds delicious, huh?


16. Put together a wine tasting

The best way to learn about wine is with great company. There’s a lot of knowledge behind organizing a wine tasting. But with a little bit of research, you will be able to host a nice wine tasting.

The wine tasting beginner can start off by choosing wine with the same grape variety from different areas.


17. Have a picnic in your living room

The great thing about picnics is that you can have a romantic date anywhere. The awesome thing about having a picknick indoors in your own house is that you can have it any-frigging-time.

It doesn’t matter if it’s February and snowy outside. You can still enjoy a romantic picnic with your husband. You just have to have it indoors.



18. Talk to each other

Yes, you probably talk to each other all the time. But how is your communication? And what do you actually talk about? The kids? Your day? But it probably stops there.

By playing a talk game you’re forced to talk about things that you might never have talked about otherwise.


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19. Write love letters

What greater way to express your emotions that to put them in writing. And just imagine how you will feel when you read about your loved one’s feelings for you.

Make sure that you write about how much you respect and appreciate your husband and all the things he does for you. And please, don’t mention how his socks on the floor make you crazy. No one wants to read that in a love letter..


20. Write your bucket list

Are there things that you want to do with your husband before you die? Write them down together! Your husband probably has some great ideas too. By writing down all of the things that you want to do, you’re more likely to actually do them.

Whether it’s creating a couples playlist or bungy jumping while holding hands, you should write them down. Some of them you might actually do, while some of them are best to be left for your fantasies.

Related: 21 Ways To Improve The Relationship With Your Child When You’re Feeling Disconnected From Each Other


21.  Drink beer, eat wings and watch sport

If you’re not a beer drinker, you can figure out what kind of beer you’re likely to enjoy on forehand. Your husband will like that you made the effort!

Then make some restaurant style Buffalo chicken wings and let your hubby choose what game to watch on TV. You don’t have to enjoy the game, but you know that at least the wings will be good.


22. Cuddle in bed and eat

I saved the best for last. The best dates are most likely the low key ones. Put on your pajamas, make something good (and bed appropriate) to eat and watch Netflix in bed together. Isn’t it great to be able to cuddle with each other in bed, without all of those little and adorable people trying to snag your spot?


Dating after you’ve already married is important. You don’t want to drift apart or neglect one another. After you’ve had kids it becomes more difficult to find the time. But then it’s great to have some ideas of how to keep dating at home.


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Let’s chat down below! what do you and your significant other do on date night?



  1. Nicholette

    Super cute ideas. I love the board game idea.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 Me too! Trivial Pursuit is a game we play a lot.

  2. Morgan

    This is great! I’ll definitely save these for later!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 You should definitely pin it 😉

  3. Emma

    Great ideas! I am definitely guilty of ignoring my husband at the end of a long day with the kids. Gonna show him this list and pick one for this weekend!

    • AwesomeAlice

      I hope you have a great date night 🙂

  4. Becky

    I love these ideas. We love to watch a movie in bed, or play a board game. It gives some time for just us and doesn’t cost a thing (unless we rent a movie).

    • AwesomeAlice

      That’s so nice 🙂 Having fun doesn’t have to cost a dime 😀

  5. Author Brandi Kennedy

    These are great date night ideas! My favorite was the suggestion to write love letters to each other.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thank you 🙂 It doesn’t seem very common to write love letters nowadays. But I think they’d be really appreciated!

  6. Becki Svare

    Really fun ideas! I really like the ”around the world date night” idea. Sounds like something we’d enjoy!

    • AwesomeAlice

      You have to try it 🙂 It’s such a unique date idea

  7. Anastasia Blogger

    Wow, what a variety of ideas – from fondu party to love games 🙂 We don’t have kids yet, but many of these tips sound great for all the couples!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Yeah, I think that almost every couple will be able to find at least one idea from the list that they can do 🙂


    I do love going out to destress. But being a home buddy with my partner is also nice. It is less costly to do so as well. 🙂

    • AwesomeAlice

      Going out is fun too! I wish we could go out, out more often. But it’s a bit difficult with two young kids.

  9. Natalie

    These are great ideas not only for couples, but many are also fun to do with freinds! Thanks for the inso!

    • AwesomeAlice

      That’s true! Thanks for the new perspective 🙂

  10. David Elliott

    These are such cute date night ideas. It almost makes me miss having a partner to do them with. I will have to remember this when I start dating again.

    • AwesomeAlice

      You could always pin this post 😉 Or as Natalie commented, do them with a friend!

  11. Glenda

    I really like your suggestings. Giving each other massaging, romantic dinner and movie marathon are my favorite.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂

  12. Jessica

    These are some great ideas! My husband and I have to force ourselves to have a indoor date night when we can due to schedules and whatnot. We often do the movie/tv show binge on Netflix or play board games. I’m going to check out the Around the World idea! Thanks!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 It’s so easy to get comfortable and just ignore dating when you’re a couple. I wish that my husband and I could find a TV show that we both enjoyed and we could watch together once or twice a week, but it seems impossible. It sounds so nice when I here couple that watch a show together season after season.

  13. Elizabeth O.

    Home date nights are so much better because it’s more private and you don’t have to deal with other people and the stress of finding a good sitter. These are great ideas! Just because you’re at home doesn’t mean you can’t be romantic.

    • AwesomeAlice

      That is so true!

  14. Sara

    Very good idea! Parenting seems a very though job..I still don’t have children but I’ll keep in mind your advise!😃

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 You can always pin it 😉

  15. Kassi

    What a great list! I love how simple and creative all of these ideas are. It is so easy to get caught up with the kids all the time. I know I definitely need to spend some more time connecting with my partner. Thank you for sharing.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 Ýes, I agree. I hope you get the time and energy soon to reconnect!

  16. Peachy @ The Peach Kitchen

    I love you date night suggestions! We do 1,6,17,and 18! Date nights are really a must to keep the love alive!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 🙂 Yes, it’s so important!

  17. GiGi Eats

    My husband and I don’t really have DATE NIGHT per say (cause we don’t have kids and I feel like that’s when ”date night” happens)… So basically every night is date night (unless one or the other has dinner plans with friends). We will have this for at least another 1.5 years or so cause I told him I don’t want to have kids QUITE yet! he he.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Must be nice to have every night as date night 🙂

  18. Leo T. Ly

    I love these ideas. My wife’s favourite is getting a free massage.

    • AwesomeAlice

      I can relate with her, lol!

  19. Wanderlust Vegans

    Some great date night ideas. We don’t have any kids, so every night is date night. 🙂 It is fantastic. Always on our honeymoon.

    • AwesomeAlice

      That sounds awesome 😉

  20. stacey

    I LOVE all these esp. the personality tests which I don’t think we’ve ever done together.

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks 😀 We haven’t done that one together either yet, but I think that it could be really good to get some more insight in each others personalities.

  21. Andrea

    LOVE these ideas! So glad I found your blog!!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thank you 🙂 I’m glad you found it too 😀

  22. Lisa @ The Meaning of Me

    Great ideas. We’ve done many of these over the years, but found some new ones here, too!

    • AwesomeAlice

      If you have more ideas you’re welcome to share 🙂

  23. Elizabeth

    Fun ideas! I only have one question….Any tips for getting the kids in bed EARLY? LOL!!
    I’ve tried the after bedtime date, and it never fails someone doesn’t get to sleep, or has a bad dream. It’s always something! But that is why it’s still so important to ”date” your husband. Thanks for the inspiration and great ideas!!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Take them on a hike and make them so exhausted that you’ll have to drag them up the next morning 😀

  24. Leanna

    These are great ideas. Going to print this post out and see if Hubs would consider doing any of the. I hope he likes the spa night idea.

    • AwesomeAlice

      I hope he’ll find something that he likes 🙂

  25. April J Harris

    Date nights are so important to a relationship, and I love your ideas for ways to spend them at home. It’s not always possible to go out, and these fun, frugal ideas are perfect! Sharing! Thank you for being a part of Hearth and Soul. Hope to ‘see’ you again this week!

    • AwesomeAlice

      Thanks for stopping by! 😀


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